As H@T_Trick said, I moved the thread and I'm answering (you're starting to know me a bit too much now :p).
Gadget25, you can try the OS2008 packages from
http://kakaroto.homelinux.net/~kakaroto/n810 it says n810, but it's actually os2008 and should work the same with n800 (but the n810 is much better because you have a real keyboard so you don't waste all the space needed by the virtual keyboard everytime you want to chat with someone).
As I said in the other thread, I have no issues installing the packages, while lokidor says it says incompatible... maybe you can give us more info on whether it works for you or not and maybe I'll be able to fix it.
In order to install something with dpkg, you will need to have root access, in order to do it you must install the package 'becomeroot', follow this guide :
http://maemo.org/community/wiki/HowTo_EASILY_BecomeRootonce you installed it, you open the x terminal and type 'sudo gainroot', you will be root now. open the browser to the url above, and save all the deb files to some directory (I created an 'amsn' directory on my memory card), then as root, go to that directory (cd /media/mmc1/amsn for example) and type :
dpkg -i *.deb
that should be it...
after that, it should work.